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female
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anonymous
writes:My husband and I were married for over 11years went through a divorce and have been remarried for about 7 months now. During sex together he only last a few min and it has always been this away, never bothered me cause he pleases me with foreplay as well. However it really bothers him while we were apart he realized that every other woman he was with he can last alot longer during sex. Than we get back together back to the same thing only min. Can someone please tell me why???
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reader, person12345 +, writes (15 February 2012):
 Because he is more attracted to you, because you're better in bed, because he's closer to you. Any of the above. It's a positive reflection on you.
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reader, china doll 1936 +, writes (14 February 2012):
 you probably excite him too much why not forplay with him longer and if an accident occurs with him the next time might be longer
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (14 February 2012):
 FORGET about any and all sexual activities that may have taken place whilest the two of you were apart.....
... AND focus on the great intimacy that the two of you are sharing now.
WHAT GOOD CAN COME of comparing ANYTHING that you and he are doing now, with anything that happened whilest the two of you were separated??????
P.S. Congratulations on the two of you recognizing that you had a good friendship/partnership/relationship/marriage and were willing to re-open it and try again!!!! Hope all goes well from this day forward....
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female
reader, janniepeg  +, writes (14 February 2012):
 It would be a very insensitive thing to talk about sex experience with other women while you were broken up. If he was not telling the truth he could be lying to cover the insecurity of his sexual ability. It's the "it's not me, it's you" kind of thing. Did he use a condom with the other women and not you? Condom reduces sensitivity and maybe that's why. Focus on each other especially on Valentine's Day. I think if you get back together there has to be a reason deeper than just sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2012): Because he is trying to picture you when he is having sex with them and so it takes longer with them. With you, hon, well, he thinks you are HOT and he just can't help himself. There are ways to lengthen the time it takes, but I am not sure how far I can explain it here.
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