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writes:I meet my b/f in September. We have been dating ever since. We have had sex and well we keep it all a secret but then someone found out and well here's the catch. See he's 18 and I'm 15, well I'm about to turn 16 in May. We was happy entile someone told his consuler and now he might go 2 jail b-cause of it. But he might not, so in the mean time he wants to break up with me.But the ONLY reason he wants 2 is because that's what his consuler wants, but not what he wants. He told me that if she would have never found out that he would have NEVER thought about breaking up with me. He's the love of my life and I love him w/all my heart, I have given all that I have just for him to be happy. So then what should I do? Should I keep on going like everythings fine or what? I love him and I don't want him to leave me. How should I keep him around? I need your HELP! Reply to this Article
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reader, rcn +, writes (4 April 2008):
 what is ur state. not all have the 18 law
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reader, xxxamandaxxx  +, writes (31 March 2008):
well, in my opinion counselors are hardly ever right, if you both love each other then you will stick it out, however though you have got to look on the positive side if he does break up with you for a while then if you get back with him it means it is meant to be, also if you both felt ready enough to have sex then your not really committing a crime because you actually wanted to do it, also he seems really nice and is willing to put your best interests at heart by not wanting to go to jail, so there is still hope but ask him and be honest- who would you listen to me or a counselor, and just reassure him, and it will all turn out good in the long run good luck and i hope you both live happily ever after!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): If you're in love with him as much as you say, then leave him. Afterall, as the saying goes, absence makes the heart fonder. You'll know how much he loves you, and you'll know how much you love him.
It was very silly to have sex knowing your age. Why you did it I don't know. Likewise with him. For an 18 year old guy, he should have had more brains in his head than to agree. If you love each other, the last thing you guys should have done was to do something that could possibly jeopardise each other's lives.
Hope you learn something from this. 15 is a very young age to already be having sex. You're killing the significance and beauty of it that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): I had a friend with this situation. I don't know what to tell you though. I thnk you should just follow your heart and do what you think is best for you and the relationship. I hope it all works out though.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (26 March 2008):
 This sounds more like a question that you should have asked in the main dearcupid forum, so don't be surprised if you don't get many answers here. You are underage, as I'm sure you know, and you both made a mistake by having sex too soon. If two people really love each other, then sex can wait until it's legal to do so, I think. As your guy is technically an adult, he's going to have to face the consequences of having sex with someone who is considered a minor.
I think you should think very carefully about the situation you're in, and maybe let things take their natural course. Then, when you're both of age and can be sure of each other, you can proceed with the relationship. Right now, though, seeing you might just get him into more trouble. If you really love him, you should be able to wait, and resume a relationship after everything has been cleared up.
Good luck, and hope everything turns out for the best.
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