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writes:I am in love with my girlfriend and she loves me too.We have been dating for 8 months. She went to costa rica a month ago for internship. She will stay there for 3 months and we really miss each other. We chat almost everyday on internet and talk on the phone too.We get along really well and understand each other a lot but there is one problem though. My girlfriend is a bit more liberal than me and I am a little conservative minded. As i have mentioned that she is in costa rica now and she went to this park there few weeks ago, now when she went there, there was a beach there too and she and her friends decided to go to the beach but since they didnt have swimsuits, they decided to swim in their underwear and bra. Now when she told me all this I was kind of upset that she was walking around in the beach with her bra and panties in public. I know its not a big deal to many people but to me it is. Do you think it was okay for her to do such a thing? Secondly, she is living with a host family and they are really nice but the host father is too nice. At times, he comes near her, hugs her and rubs her arms when his wife isnt looking. That makes her uncomfortable but she doesnt know what to do. It has happened three times already in 4 days. This hug is obviously not an innocent hug and this guy seems like a pervert to me. But my girlfriend says that men in costa rica are generally flirty so its like a normal thing there. I have suggested her to tell this man clearly not to touch her like that or give him dirty looks or whatever. But my girlfriend insists that its not a big deal and its a cultural thing there. This whole issue makes me mad that some man is touching my girlfriend like that and my girlfriend is doing nothing about it. I am afraid that if she doesnt do anything about it, this man will get more and more dirty with her. Do you think i am being overprotective or too jealous? What do you think my girlfriend should do to stop that guy from doing such things? Should I just stop worrying about it cuz as my girlfriend tells that its not a big deal there. Thanks,
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): I don't know much about relationships because I'm having troubles with my girl too. But man that just seems weird how he's touching your girlfriend like that. If that was me I'd straight punch the crap outa' him and tell him wassup. Your girlfriend might not know what to do in these situations because she's too nice. That's all I gotta say bro. Good luck.
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