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writes:So the guy I have been dating for a few months has gone off to sweden to meet someone he snogged before we met. he states that it is to get it out is system and we have discussed openly that he is clearly going away for whatever it maybe sex, space etc. Anyway my question is should I continue this situation? What i saw in him is what i saw in me (when we first met) he is dyslexic and comes from a high earning family background. This is just a snippet but wanted an out there guage - what's people's replies? I feel ive made my mind up but just putting out there on the www.Cheers :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): How could you let him, that's ridiculous
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (4 September 2010):
 and you're actually okay with this??
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): Yes, you should continue this... he's gone and not around you. When he comes back I'd ignore him, and tell him you've moved on. Any guy that would tell his girlfriend that he had to go chase a piece of ass that he met prior to you should be cut loose.
Fast forward 10 to 15 years... Honey, I need to go chase the nanny, and have sex with her... got to "get it out of my system"... is that the way you want to live your life?
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reader, rcn  +, writes (4 September 2010):
 I'd say this is not okay. Should have had this out of his system when you two got together and began dating. I'd recommend you not be there when he returns. This really is disrespectful behavior. Either he wants you or he wants her. If he's going to be with her, even for a short period, it shows the lack of commitment he has for you, and maybe would have for you if you began dating again when he returns. You deserve better, and I hope you decide to find someone who's with you and doesn't have someone else to get out of their system.
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (4 September 2010):
 Well honestly I wouldn't want to date a guy who just runs off to have sex with other girls.
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