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writes:We're in high school, and she'd been acting really weird lately, as in not answering my im's and not talking to me at school. I already had a feeling that this was coming, I was prepared for it. But today, after school, she had finally gotten to me after the whole day.She saw me and said: "I need to talk to you. You've probably already heard because everyone's talking about it, but you know..""Yeah, I know about it""I'm sorry, do you know why though?...""No, I actually don't.""It's because I just can't do this anymore.""?...""I can't keep lying to my parents, and you already know about my brother. I just, I just can't do this anymore. Are you okay?""I'm ok, not really, no, not at all..""Please, you know I don't hate you right?""Yeah, I know""Please don't hate me?""Actually, I still really like you.""Don't make me feel bad please?""I'm sorry, it's just that I don't want you thinking I hate you."And then later in the day, when I was at the front of the school, she was there too. In the corner of my eye I saw her talking to her friends and occassionally looking at me. She and her friends were obviously talking me. I'm not sure if she was looking at me to see if I was okay, or just looking at me because she really feels pain in our breakup. Because when I looked back at her, several times, she looked like she was about to cry.I'm really sad, but for some reason, I'm not as upset as I think I should be... after reading that, do you guys think she still loves me?Oh yeah, afterwards, she sent me a message saying this:"heyy, i know that you've known for a week and everything already. and im sorry for making you wait, i was just like, i dont even know. youu dont have to be withh me to be happy, i meann you did say even after this would happen we'd still be friends, just not exactly like before thoughh. you have your whole entire life aheadd of youu, dont let something like this bring you down if it even does. whether you hate me or not i wont forget you either. you did somewhat make a difference. so dont be sadd or what not, be happy, we're in HIGHSCHOOL :D haha. ohh and btw i hopee you wont be goinng off tellinn people things, and dont changee.thanks for everything? "It was heartbreaking reading that message, but it really did give me hope that I'll be okay. Do you guys think she still loves me? But it was family that got in the way?I honestly really liked her, she meant everything to me. But I guess it's time to move on...
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reader, Oceano +, writes (4 September 2010):
 it does sound like there was an issue in the family. maybe you should ask what she had to lie about? and what the whole deal was with her brother.
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