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writes:please people need advice as soon as possible! been texting a boy for two weeks and met up with him last night and it went really well, we went to a beach and got to know each other and he told me i was a really nice girl and that i had a nice personality and told me that i didnt have to feel pressured into anything other than freindship at the moment. hes just gotten out of a five year relationship a few months ago and he was honest and told me about that.he said that he was a very shy and nervous boy and couldnt belive he plucked up courage to ask me out for a date, im also a shy girl and takes me a while to adjust to new people but we hit it off right away felt like we'd nown eachother ages. he tried giving me a cuddle but i just gave a brief cuddle as i felt it was an awkward situation at the time. he then apoligized as he sensed i was not comfortable with that. he kept saying that hed like to see me again if i wanted too as well of course and i agreed. hes a realy nice bloke, seems decent and trustworthy. he texed me after the date again saying he liked me and that i was a good looker and hes glad we went out. Anyway he frustrated me today as he sent me a text off an unknown number saying he couldnt text me for a few days as he has no texts but if i wanted i could text him and hed come and pick me up again.. is this his way of giving me the cold shoulder in a nice way or was he for real?? i also rememberd him saying during the date that he wanted someone to go out and chill out with and meet diff people.. i now this is selfish but i dont want to be one of MANY!! he said he'd always wanted to get to know me as hed seen me about and he thought i was a nice girl. noramlly he texts me EVERYDAY without fail!! what do i make of this boy?? is he for real? did i dissopoint him?? shold i forget and move on?? please guys read the info above and give a verdict a.s.a.p!! TA!! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys that helped alot!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): Wow. You are reading WAAY too far into this. He only has a certain amount of texts he can send for a certain time period. He's used all of them. He was nice enough to even tell you about it. If he wasn't interested, he wouldn't have bothered.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): It's possible you're reading way too far into this. Maybe his phone got shut off, maybe he has a pay-per-minute type of deal and he ran out. If he didn't want bothered with you, I don't believe he would have took the time to send that text from another phone. Just go off of what you have so far. His phone is unavailable. If you want to hang out, contact him and this number and he'll come for you. Calm down! Be happy and have fun!
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