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writes:i really need to know how this guy feels about me. its not easy to say how do you feel. i feel hes fond of me but i know im in love with him but i dont know if he feels the same way. hes very cocky and confident. hes always teasing me at work. he says nice things and makes me feel good about myself but other times he teases me. i joke and say would he ever date me and he says i have to join the queue !! he says hes dating someone now but ive found out through mutual friends this isnt true so whys he saying this. he says he cares for me and when we had a row last week he sent me a text saying sorry and he loves me loads. when i asked him he said i say that to all my friends ??? im confused sometimes he gives me the impression he likes me a lot and other times he makes me feel like im lucky to be friends with him !!! whats happening here ? please advise me
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reader, Zanie  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 He is just toying with you for attention. He knows he has your interests and it makes him feel good to get your attention. However, he is just playing with you. If he wanted anything more, he would have pursued you.
The only way to get even, is to treat him, the same way he treats you. Move on, get someone else. Even if you don't have anyone else...next time he plays his games with you...make it known that youre no longer interested in him anyways.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 It happens that you read more in what is just flirting and joking .
He has already indicated that he does not like you in a romantic way. " I care about you " just means he cares about you as a friend, in the same way as he probably cares about a lot of people.
If he meant to encourage, he would make sure to let you know he is single, instead he is doing the opposite, he is inventing a fake gf- Very probably, just to stop you from getting wrong ideas about him and his availability.
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