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51-59,
*nsulent
writes:i've been with this guy for over ayear. he totally shows me that he loves me and my kids. i'm totally inlove with him and would marry him. but he recisters on dating sites. that sems to me like he looking for something better. he says its nothing but it really bothers me to the piont i want to end it just to protect myself. sex is wonderful god its so good i've never felt so loved in my life. how do iget pat this or should i Reply to this Question
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reader, insulent +, writes (23 September 2009):
insulent is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys for replyin. these dating sites aren't like the ones where you profile yourself to find someone that your compatible with they are the hard core ones. He says so what if i like to chat with 400lb hairy woman he knows they don't look like their pictures. He says he gets sex advice like different ways and stuff. This is so hard because he really does show me he loves me he would cut off his finger for me. Its not like he does this everyday maybe just a couple times a month. I really hate it but I don't want him not to be honest about it because i like knowing. Its just so confusing!! I just wish he'd get that!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 September 2009):
Move on. this guy has no respect for you AT ALL if he's registering on dating sites. That's as bad as going out to a bar and meeting other women. You're obviously too good for him, so leave him to have all the dating sites he wants and you go and find yourself a decent guy who wants you and you only! Lots of luck. xx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 September 2009):
You should get past this by realising this guy is using you.
Is this all you really think you are worth?
Tell him to bugger off and register on all the dating sites he wants.
You want an actual man who knows how to treat a lady, rather than a pathetic little teenager like him who wants to mess about girls and see how much of a free ride he can get in exchange for half decent sex.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, samurai girl +, writes (22 September 2009):
 your instincts are correct. he is looking for something better. when you love someone and are into them, committed to them, you don't register on dating sites and actively look for other women. that is absurd.
do yourself and your kids a favor and RUN, don't walk, away from this despicable, lying jerk. you should work on getting some self esteem because you deserve to be treated better than this and your kids deserve a MAN as a role model, not a MALE.
good luck and my best to you :-)
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