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*lovebowsandcherries
writes:Hi well i am 20 years old and single i've been through alot with guys alot of them treat me badly and tell me things that in the end turn out not to be true.But i work full time at a solicitors office and there is a guy who often comes in he is our electrician he is soo hott! like i have fancied him ever since i started and everytime i don't see him i think right i don't fancy him but when i do all my feelings rush back. i recently added him on facebook and i found out he actually has a girlfriend i am so gutted :( but when i see him like we smile and you know talk and on facebook he calls me really short lol which i am in a way but still i just don't know what to do i really like him but i'm not sure whether he likes me and plus he has a girlfriend. I really don't know what to do can anyone help? would really appreciaite it.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (17 March 2009):
ilovebowsandcherries is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok thanks for those of you whom were a bit more senseitive!look i didn't say i'm going to get him i ain't that kind.i'm just asking for some advicei'm not going to ask him to dump his girlfriend sheesh!!anyways thanks for your oppinions!
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reader, kaylagal  +, writes (17 March 2009):
 I think you have bad experiences with men coz you have no self esteem. And your question confirms it. He has a girlfriend, leave him alone. By asking what you should do means you either want to share him or get him to dump his girlfriend. That's where all your bad experiences with guys start. Get over the crush and have some respect for another girl's man. All he can do for you, is sleep with you and break your heart, again. You deserve your own man, who will treat you like a queen. Good luck.K.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (17 March 2009):
 What should you doo hmmm, oh i know leave him alone he is not single so off limits dont try stealing someone elses boyfriends its just cruel and heartless find a single man
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): So you like him. So what?
I like beachfront houses too. That doesn't mean I can have one.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (17 March 2009):
 Satindesire is right here, I'm afraid you should just leave this one alone. You are allowed to fancy him and be friends just dont try and push this any further, you dont want to be that girl that wrecks other peoples relationships.
And the liklihood is that he is just being friendly with you, but I'm pretty sure he has no more feelings for you than that. If you are looking for a good guy that will treat you right, then the first thing you need to do is find one without a girlfriend! You cannot have a proper, meaningful relationship with someone who has a girlfriend, it just cant happen.
And even if he ended up kissing you or dating you, he would be cheating on his girlfriend with you. So then you will forever be worried that he could do the same back to you if he met anyone else - cheating is not a good start to a relationship.
Just leave this guy alone and focus your effort and attention elsewhere.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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