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writes: hi, im chelsea...i need help on how to act more mature...i mean i act myself all the time but im not mature.. i like to be funny and i love to act crazy but no one really likes the real me.. and boys dont either. i always scare boys away when i try to be myself. i mean i am very pretty but they just dont like the real me. i need help on becoming more mature and trustful...help,please give me advice Reply to this Question
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reader, chels123 +, writes (28 June 2010):
chels123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok look,you people dont understand,when yall were young thats what yall thought boys acted ....back then,you dont know them now. we have changed very much. we do very different things then yall did when yall were teenagers, we r more sexual active then yall,so can i have advice from people who know how teenagers in this century act.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (28 June 2010):
 At your age it would be worrying if you were acting too mature. Whose approval exactly are you seeking anyway? 13-15 yr old boys are not knowing for wanting girls to be very 'mature'.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): Heey I'm 14 , in the first of this year I was just like you but then I found out that myself could change too so here's what you've gotta do , ask someone that you trust to tell you what's really immature in you and try to correct those wrongs , about boys don't go and say a joke in front of'em nake them want youu act serious not too much ofc when you'll be real friends then you act as you want , try to change the way of thinking abt people. Being pretty from the outside aint enough. Good luuck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): Hi Chelsea, you cannot judge yourself based on he reaction of others. Thirteen to Fifteen yearold boys make terrible boyfriends, they are pretty geeky and extremely emotionally immature, in fact the girls at this age are more mature than the boys.Don't change your bubbly personality, you are probably just a little intimidating to boys at this age. Things will turn around for you in due time...for now just enjoy having friends of both genders. Kids your age are not really adept at liking anyone for the real self because they don't yet know who they are and they are trying on adult behaviors before they are really ready for them. Kids your age can be incredibly mean to each other and it happens to every generation. Just stick to your values, do what you know is the right thing to do and do not be influenced or swayed to go against those values by any one of your classmates or friends. You will regret that more than being "liked".Take care.
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