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51-59,
*eedUp!
writes:I am confused as to what my next step should be. I have been married for 10 years but lived with my husband for 10 years prior to getting married. He is a wonderful man who does not want a physical relationship anymore. For the past 7 years I have tried to talk with him with no success. Unfortunatly I meet a man who was very interested in me and wanted a physical relationship. Now I feel horrible and think I should move out. My husband will not even talk to me about a divorce. (he does not know about the other man). I just feel I should leave since I was with this other man. I have never be on my own and am a bit hesitant of what living alone will be like. So I can not decided if I am staying because he wants me to or because I am scared to leave.
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reader, FeedUp! +, writes (30 July 2010):
FeedUp! is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for responding to my question. It was helpful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): Obviously i can see that other man is issue here and you have tried to justify it by sex issue. I would not advise you to destroy 20 years of memory. you have cheated on to your husband and unfortunately you are now at wronger side of your thoughts and KARMAs.
so you will not be able to face your self itself if decide to divorce etc etc. i feel that you should work thing out with your husband.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 Your husband needs to be told that you are no where near the point in your life to give up the physical part. Maybe he is having problems with himself that he is too embarresed about. Either way if he's not willing to make the effort then tell him you'll have to fulfill your sexual needs from someone else and if he has a problem with that he better change. Just because you love someone that does not mean you give up something so important to you.
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