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writes:Alright!! i'm gonna lay it all out. Ive been dating this guy Kris for 2 months now, he is twenty seven, and I'm nineteen. We started dating and everything was good. He said he loved me like two weeks in!! Way fast but I thought hey maybe it can happen like this. We also slept together our first date:( I know bad move on my part. He has a child and has just recentley became civil with his ex who he was with for seven years. So he used to obsessively call me everyday. To see what I was doing... everything. Recentley he stopped calling me like the last two days. I have to call him. I;m super paranoid that he is maybe seeing his ex or some other chick. I cant relax... I'm anxious all the time. I know hes got alot going on with his custody battle and all that but its odd that he hasnt even sent a text saying hi. I talked to some people and their like relationships aren't always gonna be happy times. I get that but I;m not happy. I dont trust him. I just dont know what to do. Please advise me!! Oh and he has a bff thats a girl and like i looked at his phone last time we kicked it and he was texting her! Im like u can text her but not me? not even hi? UGH i'm just angry and sad about this situation!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): Ok so I did it. I ended it and hes like u never gave us a chance and all this bs! It fucking hurts but im gonna stay strong:)
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (3 September 2009):
 You don't trust him and your not happy that alone is a very good reason why you should end your relationship.
On top of that though he has a ex-wife and a child and I can only imagine how hard that must be for you to deal with.
And he is texting his female bff while ignoring you.
My advice is to get out and get over him before he breaks your heart. I know it will be hard but like pinktopaz said, you need to stop contacting him.
Good Luck!
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (3 September 2009):
It's been two days since he's called, you've only been together for 2-months, and he said the L-word 2 weeks in...he likes the number 2, I'm going with that answer.
In all seriousness, he probably has some stuff going on. Yes, you're right, he's not too busy to text you. But you don't trust him and your relationship started out WAY too serious too soon. He has a lot of baggage too, so be prepared to handle a lot of BS and drama in the future. You're only 19, do you really want that? I think you should be a little less clingy for the time being and let him call you. Even if it takes several days or weeks, quit trying to call him. And really evaluate if you want this guy, you shouldn't be with someone you can't trust and he has way too much baggage that I know I would not have wanted to deal with at 19.
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reader, Nataliemarie +, writes (3 September 2009):
I think he's playing games! The constant calling he was doing before IS OBSESSIVE...It's way too needy and this is a cause for concern. It denotes a lack of stability. You said your not happy and you do not seem to trust him- if your only 2 months in, get out of this relationship before it turns into a nightmare!
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reader, HereAreMyTwoCents +, writes (3 September 2009):
 Two months in is too quickly to get that emotionally invested in him, especially with a recent ex, a child, and a girl friend in his picture. If he frustrates you that much, two months into it, and you don't trust him, cut this relationship off before it gives you anymore grief, which by all accounts looks like it surely will.
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