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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months at university and over the summer we've had to go long distance. At first it was all fine but lately it's been a problem of communication and I keep on feeling as though he doesn't make enough of an effort to keep in contact with me. I don't really ask much of him- just a few texts throughout the day and a phonecall/skype a few times a week. I've told him about it a few times and he always apologises and says he'll make it up to me, but it keeps on happening and I'm quite sick of it. These past few weeks I've been miserable and I don't want to feel like that during my last weeks of summer when I'm supposed to be having fun with friends I won't get to see again for a while. The thing is, I know we're going back to university soon so I'm hoping that this problem will resolve itself seeing as we'll be able to see each other more. But right now, I'm really not happy with how things are and I just feel like this period is gonna dampen our relationship in the long run.Any advice? Thanks a lot for reading.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 September 2011):
 if he's not making the effort then he's not as interested as you want him to be.
Men who are in love would move mountains for the woman they are in love with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2011): He's not as into you as you want. You want something much more passionate and real than this. The fact that he cannot be arsed speaks volumes. Stop talking yourself out of how you feel. Stop making apologies for him. Listen to how you feel. Don't be satisfied with something that makes you unhappy and under valued.
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