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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2023): He is your boyfriend and says you cannot keep a man. Surely he is proof that this is not true? He is with you and he is your boyfriend so you were able to keep him. But he is not worth the bother You are daft to stay with him.
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reader, RevMick  +, writes (8 July 2023):
 I'm getting from your question and the little information you give that it's really becoming an issue and no-one who loves someone else would use that kind of language even in anger.
It sounds like your partner may be a narcissist and the sooner you can get away from this person the better for your health and wellbeing.
It does seriously sound like he is just collecting more and more ammunition that he can fire off at you when he feels like it. I would get the heck out of dodge.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (8 July 2023):
 Who says these things to someone they claim they love? No one does. Which means he doesn't love you, care about your feelings or cherish you in any way. Dump him immediately, if not sooner, and block him for GOOD.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (8 July 2023):
 Seems like you have an abusive asshat as a BF, how about you dump him and find someone who will love and support you, not just tear you down.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (7 July 2023):
 Walk away. Plain and simple. The man is a jerk.
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reader, kenny +, writes (7 July 2023):
 Your post is quite short, and not much information given about this situation.
From what you have said he does not sound like a very nice person at all and sounds controlling and manipulative.
Well the truth of the matter is if you love someone you don't act this way or say those things.
I can only advise getting out of this relationship and finding someone who loves you and treats you with the love and respect that you deserve.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2023):
To begin with; who days these things to people they claim to love .
Would seem he does .
Tell him you can't be basket as though you didn't know both your parents . You had a father .
He uses this to control you; his insecurity is to make you feel like shite and that makes his life look better .
Look sweetie .. you don't need to be with him .. let him slide right out that back door where the rubbish goes .
He's wasted 2 years of your life don't let him ruin anymore
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