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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hello I have a problem with my boyfriend, I am a very defensive person, because it is dificult for me to trust in people, my boyfriend is a very good guy. The thing is that as I am forein he is learning my first language that is spanish, so obviously sometimes he would make mistakes and I correct him, but the other day he said something that was not correct which in spanish would be translated as "I love you", but for some reason I though that, that wasn't what he meant, and a couple of hours later I told him that don't use that frase anymore in spanish because it is a synonim of "I love you", and for my surprice he replys to that " and you think I don't mean it?" and I reply no, so he lower his head and look to the floor, so does this mean he really loves me? We have been together for almost 8 months, some opinions please Reply to this Question
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reader, Dipsydoodlenoodle  +, writes (15 October 2008):
OMG he loves you, he told you in your language not his, thats got to mean something, I think it would be even sweeter for him to say it in your native language rather than for him to say it in his language, he probably thought it would mean so much more to you. When you told him what it meant and he looked at the floor he was obvioulsy embarrassed. He's learning spanish for you; seriously if he didn't care for you why go to the bother of learning spanish?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2008): Hi, are you two already in a relationship? If yes, he most probably meant what he said when he said he loves you. If the two of you are just friends, may be he tries to tell you that he has feelings for you.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (2 October 2008):
 I think it means you hurt his feelings, Hun. If you love him to, now would be a good time to say it. Sometimes, you have to put your heart out there. He sounded sincere.
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