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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I had 2 great dates with a guy. The 1st one after 3 months of emailing nearly every day. He called to arrange a 2nd date and said he's looking forward to seeing me again. There was a 5 months gap between the 2 dates because we were both travelling because of work, but we stayed in touch via text messages. When we were both back home, we met again and had a great 2nd date! He kissed me on the cheeks to say hello, opened the doors for me. We gazed into each others eyes. At one point we both leaned in a lot, so our faces were very close. He said I have beautiful eyes. Communication did flow, we were laughing a lot and we have so much in common. We made plans for future activities....He kissed me on the cheeks to say bye and said until next time. I was 100% sure I'd see him again!After the date I texted him twice (after 10 days and a week later) if he wants to watch that movie we were talking about. Each time he responded straight way saying he'd love to but he's still working long hours and will get back to me once his project is finished (he really did have to finish a big project). But the project finished and he never got in touch with me. I sent him another text 3 weeks after the project was finished asking if he's ok, but it's been 3 weeks and he hasn't responded.I really liked him and thought we could become good friends and maybe more. We've talked about how dating is also a good way to find friends. So, I'm surprised he just vanished. Somehow he was part of my live for 8 months. I always enjoyed hearing from him and now he is gone.... And I don't know why.Is there anything I can do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2008): the reason doesn't really matter. it obviously has nothing to do w/ you - he just has other stuff. you can't be offended by it, bc it's not about you. let it go and find someone else. in the meantime, fall programming just started up again, and there's a global financial crisis in the credit markets. between the tv dramas and the cable all-night news, surely there's something you can watch to keep you occupied.
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