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*ovely194
writes:For the last few months my guy has been textin his ex's more and more. It's not this that bothers me its the fact that he never defends me to them and he tells lies about me to them and agrees with them over me. Recentley he started to delete his entire text message outbox and inbox and when i ask why he said "so you dont get moody" i asked him not to do it anymore, he stopped, but then his ex started an argument with me the first time she saw me on a night out and i asked him if she has text him he said she had and i asked him not to delete his messages, and he did just before i met up with him. I've been with him a year do you think something going on with his ex?
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reader, lovely194 +, writes (8 March 2009):
lovely194 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm not really linked to his ex's at all, i only know of them mainly through the texs he recieves all the time. It was the first time i'd even seen her that night and it was orginally her boyfriend who started arguing with me becuase i said to my friend i think thats my boyfriends ex girlfriend, then she started. Priviously to that night tho my boyfriend has text her saying i deleted her number out of his phone, i was arguing him (when i wasnt) and told her i was talking to other blokes who i think he is scared of, when originally it was an old friend from college i was talking to. i was going to ask my boyfriend not to text her anymore but im just going to do the opposit and act like im not interested in anything he does hopfully that might make him realise im losing interest and make more of an effort! I'm not a jelous or paranoid person usually and this girl isnt much to look at either but it just gets under my skin how he choses her over me!
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reader, kaylagal  +, writes (8 March 2009):
 I wish you could provide more information, I'm curious how you're linked to his ex's. Anyway, what he is doing is very disrespectful. Some silly boys like to see girls bickering and fighting, that might be what he's trying to do or maybe he's trying to make you jeolous (sp).
Sit him down, ask him why he does that. Explain to him that it bothers you. Also explain to him that you need him to defend you. A nice, honest chat might help. He might think what he is doing is harmless. Some people just don't know.
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reader, triedit  +, writes (8 March 2009):
 Why are you with this guy? He's a loser. Find someone decent who isn't still trailing around after the women he couldnt make it work with.
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