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30-35,
*obylove4
writes: there is this guy at my school. we have the same lunch hour and kind of the same friends. well I would go sit at the table with my friends and he would sit at another table with his. so every once in a while I would catch him looking at me. I like him to, so I found it flattering. so then he moves to my table with his friends. I move up the table more towards his friends, so I can talk with more of my friends. so then he starts to sit across from me and after a while he starts to sit next to me. plus now he makes comments towards me or friends I was talking with. like this one time the spot next to me was taken, so he just stood in the place of where the person was sitting. I gave my friend a high 5 for something. he goes where is my high 5 and is looking at me as he said it. I shrug my shoulders because I did not want to play it where I was easy. so the other guy across from me goes to give him one and he does the whole who's gay thing. anyway, my question is does he like me? how can I get him to talk to me more or even ask me out? do you really think he likes me? what is he all trying to pull here? is he flirting with me? he is so hard to figure out, but he is cute anyway! please help me???
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reader, kaylagal +, writes (8 March 2009):
I respect triedit's answer 100% but totally disagree. You should wait for him to make a move on you. He does sound like he really likes you. Maybe give it a couple of weeks but just stay cool. Find a balance, don't totally ignore him, just keep it cool.
I think at your age, guys should make all the move and then off course when you get older, it's okay to make the first move.
Good luck.
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reader, tobylove4 +, writes (8 March 2009):
tobylove4 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni just want to really get to know him first though! how do i break the ice?
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reader, triedit +, writes (8 March 2009):
So why don't you ask HIM out? Why wait for him to get the hint or the courage. Nothing wrong with being honest and straightforward. And it doesn't mean you are "easy". Give it a shot and let us know how things went!
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