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writes:Im a freshman at my school and i just met dis guy friend dis past year and i guess were more than friends now because we just had sex without protection but he said "pulling out" would work. But im a little nervous... Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (12 August 2007):
 "as much use as a chocolate saucepan" - hilarious!!
Just like everyone else has said, pulling out is NOT a good method of birth control. You can absolutely still get pregnant - in fact, I have a friend who just got pregnant making the same mistake!!
Not to mention, pulling out doesn't protect you what-so-ever from STD's. Here's a little stat for you: 1 in 4 sexually active teens will get an STD (Facts in Brief: Teen Sex and Pregnancy, The Alan Guttmacher Institute, New York, 1996). That is a very real statistic, so you should work hard to protect yourself!! STD's are no picnic and can affect you for the rest of your life.
Take good care of yourself... and find a guy who respects you, not a guy who is irresponsible. You deserve the best, sweetness!
xxIndia
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (12 August 2007):
 You're welcome hunni!
Dont let your guy push you in to having unprotected sex :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx al0t f0r the help =]. Yea im w0rried and i am gonna check
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (12 August 2007):
The pulling out method is not the best way to avoid pregnancy as pre-cum contains a small percentage of sperm and it only takes one sperm to get you pregnant. So I would tell him to wear a condom or get yourself on the pill.
Also unprotected sex is leaving you open to STIs and AIDs. Are you 100% sure you guy is clean as some infections don't show any symptoms straight away.
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reader, skye +, writes (12 August 2007):
 This method does not work sweetheart. Hlskitten is right. I dont want to scare you, but you could be putting yourself at all sorts of risks by not using a condom. Please get some and learn how to use them properly before you next decide to have sex.
You should get a pregnancy test if you dont start your period within 19 or 20 days of having unprotected sex. I know that seems like a long time to wait, but if you test before this time the reading could be wrong. The early detection kits are very reliable after 19 or 20 days and are the same as the ones your doctor uses.
This boy has used you for sex and put you at risk of STDs and pregnancy. He is not your friend. Please stay away from him from now on.
I hope you are not pregnant, but if you do test positive please tell your mum. You and your baby will need medical treatment as soon as possible.
I hope things work out for you this time. Learn from this and dont ever allow this experience to be repeated in you future.
Take care,
Skye
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (12 August 2007):
 The withdrawel method is about as much use as a chocolate saucepan to be honest.
You would still have pre cum inside you & thats able to get you pregnant too.
Bad way of avoiding getting pregnant. Besides the std risks!
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