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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everybodyI really need your opinion on this situation. I met a guy in November and things moved pretty quickly. He came round to mine nearly every night and we both (well at least i thought) had quite strong feelings. He said that he was really close to falling in love with me. I then heard a rumour that he used to be a player a while back and not to trust him, so i told him that i didnt think that he was right for me. He explained that he was no longer a player, but then distanced himself from me and it wasnt quite the same from then on. we continued seeing each other but then my ex asked to see me again.At the time i thought this was the right decision so i told this guy i couldnt see him again. A week later i realised the strong feelings that i had for this guy. I rang him constantly and begged him to give us another chance. He said that he felt the same but then ignored me for a week! He then text me a week later saying 'i didnt know what to think or what i wanted so didnt want to speak to you' and now he is back in a proper relationship with his ex girlfriend :( If he was actually 'falling in love with me' like he said then surely he would have jumped at the chance to be with me when i told him how i felt???i feel so hurt and let down x x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 March 2010):
But you went back to your ex first. I'm afraid you paid the price for not getting to know him enough and listening to him. You can't be angry at him for going to his ex, when you did exactly that to him first. You just have to move on and accept that a mistake was made. In the future, don't judge someone just on hear-say. Listen to all points of view. And leave ex's in the past. You can't expect a man to just jump to attention when you have hurt him. And you hurt him. Yes, he may have fallen for you, but you hurt him. That was enough to make it that he moved on.
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (16 March 2010):
 ok you left him for your ex obviously he didnt really have a choice but to move on too instead he went back to his ex. you cant really say anything about how could he love you if he is staying with his ex and didnt jump at the chance of getting back with you when you left this guy in the first place for your ex.i think you need to move on now whats happened has happened and you both went your seperate ways you cant really turn back the clock
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