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*earlgurrl
writes:ok so i have a problem well there is this guy. and i really really care about him. and i think that he cares about me too. He even told my friend that he cares about me.. its just that ive been waiting on him for a long time. weve been talking and hangin out and to say the least.. we havent been exactly christian =]. but im just waiting on him to ask me out.In the beginning he told me that he wasnt going to rush into anything cause he wanted to really care about the girl. and i completely understand its just that i really miss having a boyfriend. and i want him to myself. i want to be able to call him mine and noone else can. He said that in the beginning and its been a month. so i dont know if he is just using me and its not going anywhere. cause i really care about him... so i want it to go somewhere.Im scared too in the fact that i dont know if i can control him. He is the kind of guy that is very popular, super confident, flirty, and is gorgeous, and not to mention that im a sophmore and he is a senior. But then again he isnt a player or someone that i would think would use me. when we are together and by our selves.. its so romantic and special. when we are in public we dont talk as much... like we do talk alot but when he is with his friends i try to leave him alone.i just really wish he would hurry up.and until then im just waiting.do you really think that he likes me?should i wait on him?
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reader, rcn +, writes (3 October 2007):
 If this were to work out, you don't want to control him. It really doesn't matter how cute and popular he is. Underneath all those looks is a real person, and deserves the same respect and trust as anyone else in a relationship.
I think he's not ready to give up his freedom. If he was at least you'd be holding hands in public and when he's with his friends. He may be really nice when you're alone, but a real relationship doesn't end at different times and situations.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (1 October 2007):
 Hi
If he says hes not ready at the moment, then i would forget about it. If you can just hang out as mates then do that. But DONT sleep with him if you're not getting what you want back from him. Im having a bit of fun with someone at the moment, we go back a long long way (16 yrs) and neither of us are ready to be obligated to someone at the moment, but because we are BOTH cool with that, it works sexually. Just be careful.
And who knows, at sometime soon he might change his mind.
C xxx
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