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writes:my boyfriend and i are having a baby and we've only been dating 6 months. i got pregnant the first night. Now he says he wants a normal relationship where he has his feedom still, cause hes 21 and im 27. He doesnt want to move in together yet and not see each other as much which was only on weekends. Because he still wants to do his own thing but not see other women just date me? Is this normal? Is this what can be considered a normal relationship? Just cause u r having a baby does that mean u have to be together 24 /7 or live together? Am i seeing this in the wrong way Reply to this Question
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (1 October 2007):
 Hi,
Maybe its just a bit of a shock, and he just wants to back off a bit. This doesnt mean completely.
Give him time and I am sure it will work out OK. At 21 its rather young for a guy to have that much responsibility. And they are not well known for being grown up are they?.
XX Good luck and when he see's that baby I recon he will change his mind and wont want to be without either of you.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (1 October 2007):
 Hi
It sounds perfectly normal to me what he's saying. You can still be good parents together but not live together. You are still at the getting to know each other stage at the moment. Moving in together could well be a baaaaaaaaad move!
As long as he's faithful to you, and supports you where the baby is concerned, it could all work out good.
Good luck.
C xxxx
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