A
female
age
41-50,
*exie88
writes:I asked about this situation recently but I went for it and did something about it but I feel stuck again so please help :)I saw this guy on one of my friends' Facebook and I thought he was hot. I sent him a friend request and told him I thought he was gorgeous. I was expecting him to ignore me. BUT the next day he accepted my request and even wrote on my wall thanking me for the compliment and ending his message with a question (I assume to keep the conversation going). A few days before this my friend wrote to him wishing him a happy b-day but he never replied to her. However, after my little message to him he replied to her and was really nice to her (he didn't reply to any of his other b day messages and he doesn't really know my friend that well). I responded to his message last night.Do you think he could now be interested in me?What should I do or say to get him to ask me out?p.s. we're both in our mid 20s and I know this may seem immature but this was the only way to make contact with this guy :)
View related questions:
facebook, immature Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (8 December 2008):
 Maybe he likes you, maybe he doesn't. It's just Facebook, where everyone is cordial and it's harder to interpret what's flirting and what isn't. Maybe ask him if he wants to meet up in person, and then you can feel out what he's feeling a little easier. 'Sappygirl' does make a really good point though, don't be a Facebook stalker, because that'll just make him turn and run for the hills!
A
female
reader, sappygirl +, writes (8 December 2008):
 I don't think he's interested. Just curious because you are someone new. Don't think too much into it. It sounds like you are facebook stalking him and he could get freaked out if he found out. Let things progess slowly and whatever happens happens
...............................
A
male
reader, SinVA +, writes (8 December 2008):
Seems like he is interested in you and appreciated what you said. Talk with him a little more, and if nothing comes up, maybe YOU ask him out.
But first I would chat a little more, maybe send him a message or something. Goodluck and let us know how it goes!
...............................
|
