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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi guys and girls, a bit of advice please, me and my bf split 2 months ago, we are still in contact and sometimes sleep together he dumped me to get bk with the mother of his child and things havent gone to plan with it shes gone bk to her other ex and not my ex bf., but 2day he told me that he has joined dating websites and something on face book, I cant understand this because he nows how i feel about him and if he did ask me i would defently go bk to him, yeah we are good friends now, but you dont go round sleeping with ur ex gf(me)if you didnt have feelings for them, like we stll talk everyday on the phone and yesterday he asked me down the pub i asked why and he said he wanted me to go down so i did,But 2day he said he would help me get a bf and that when we both find someone we stop sleeping together which is what i agree with as im not the cheeting type,But ive told him many times i would go bk But why cant he see it, Am i that bad not to get bk with sometimes i want to ask him that but then i loose confident in asking it,Why cant he see i still have feelings for meShould i tell him or ask him plz plz helpxx
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (8 December 2008):
 He really seems to have gotten over you - or at least he's working on it. I think you should start working on getting over this relationship too. He seems to really like you as a person, hence why he wants to hang out and help you find a man. But as a girlfriend? He wouldn't be on dating websites if he was still interested in a relationship with you.
I would stop sleeping with him (no reason to let him have his cake and eat it too), it'll help you put those romantic feelings aside. I would cool off with him and let yourself move on before you start your platonic relationship back up.
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