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writes: Dear cupid, I have a boyfriend who claims to love me so much but seemingly he has something up his sleeve.He calls me only when he needs to see me and that is after months or so. When I call him, he gives excuses to hang up.I need your advice as to whether I should continue seeing him or not. I'm tempted to think he is either a married man or is playing me.
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reader, NordicBeauty +, writes (20 June 2005):
Honey if he's your boyfriend & he waits MONTHS to see you...then he is NOT a boyfriend...he's a player & a user !Move on sweetie pie...find someone who adores you and wants to be with you every chance he gets.It's time to "take out the garbage!"Punt him to the curb and choose a guy who deserves you !
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reader, helpfull girl +, writes (17 June 2005):
i can honestly say i have been there done that!Your feller is rather cheating or useing you.And in my books both of them is not what a woman wants. It may be hard but get out while u can.Its going to be a lot easier now than it will be in another year, If you decide not to leave he will keep useing you,And you may decide 2 leave later on when it will be 10 times harder because u will gradually build more feeling's up for him, So it will break your heart!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (16 June 2005):
 I think you are answering your own question here.
This guy is no good! He doesn't call you for months? What kind of relationship is that?
He is purely using you for when it is suitable for him to do so.
He could be married and what exactly do you know about him and his life?
If he did love you, he would respect you more and care about your feelings.
Next time he rings, tell him he's dumped and find a man who knows how to treat a woman well.
Good luck.
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