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writes: Hi, well I have a bit of a dilemma! Im 16,and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me around 5 months ago. Now I thought I was doing great trying to get over him, even though he got a new girlfriend 2 weeks after we split up. Since then I've started going out with a guy who has fancied me for 4 years and he is totally perfect! Only there's one problem....he doesn't ring me ever or see me as he is always with his friends. Now I don't mind this, only it's a bit much when he doesn't make any effort at all. So I told him yesterday we should go on a break and tonight I'm seeing a guy who rings me a lot, is gorgeous and nice. Now I don't know what to do! Do I stick with the first one or leave him? I'm worried that I would miss him though! What should I do.....I still miss my ex and can't bear to be hurt like this again?? please help
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reader, beenthere +, writes (22 January 2006):
i agree. i'm in a similar relationship right now and, due to circumstances, it's hard for me to find a way out. you don't want someone who is always with his friends and not you. this other guy is making an effort. give him the chance he deserves but don't make it something serious if it's not
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reader, Kated101 +, writes (22 January 2006):
First things first, leave the "ignorer" before he hurts you, the last thing you want is to get hurt again. Then, Im not sure what you think, but maybe you should spend some time single, maybe see some other boys occassionally but nothing serious. Then when you know for sure you're completely over your ex and theres no baggage, then you can go out and meet the man of your dreams. But remember if a guy treats you badly, dont just stick around because you dont want to be on your own, get rid! I really hope this helps. All the Best xKx
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