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writes: An odd question, but I'm desirous of an answer nonetheless:My ex dumped me 7 months ago, basically cause he just didn't love me. I had really deep feelings for him and I firmly believe I love him, even though I'm just a teenager. Anyway, I was wondering why looking at him makes my heart feel like it's on fire or something? He's beautiful, but I highly doubt that's the problem. Any ideas?Thanks so much!--GG Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, GoGreen126 +, writes (18 December 2009):
GoGreen126 is verified as being by the original poster of the question1. Hahaha, I didn't come up with the title.
2. Thanks very much. I thought it'd go away after 7 months, but it still feels like cleaving layers of muscle from each other...
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reader, lovelife1437 +, writes (18 December 2009):
It's normal for you to feel this way because he was the one that left you. It's the notion of forbidden fruit because since he left, you feel like he's a challenge. It's going to be difficult in the beginning because you actually have deep feelings for him so it's normal that your heart go boom boom pow when you see him especially if he's beautiful! Take some time to recollect your thoughts to see if it's just infatuation. If it's not real love, then the boom boom pow will go away quicker than you think, especially if you find someone else more beautiful, however, love based on looks don't last very long. Good Luck! :-)
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