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How to handle rude neighbours?

Q.   Hey Cupid family! I've got this question that I have to get off my chest. I live in this neighbourhood with my family(sister, brother and mum), and apparently It's like most of the people dislike us. We mind our own business but every other day ...

A.   13 May 2014: Thanks for your response . I think they have self esteem issues probably. As far as I can remember, even when we were younger,In elementary school, most people would talk bad about us and this went on up to Uni. Maybe they want us to conform, ... (read in full...)

How to get over a cat which had to be put down?

Q.   My cat died two days ago. I can't stop crying. How do i get through this?. My cat was 16 years old. I had her since she was two months old. She started becoming ill last week ( it may have even been longer than that, but that is when it got worse ) ...

A.   14 March 2013: Im so sorry for your loss sweetie,i lost my cat too mid last year and it was heartbreaking!She had her leg amputated after a terrible accident.We were so positive that she would survive but two days after the amputation she passed on.Mamushka,was ... (read in full...)

Should I date this guy with no job and who didn't go to college? I like him!

Q.   Hey guys,I've been friends with this dude since early this year.(March to be precise).Well, we exchanged numbers and really hit it off.Lately we've been spending lots of time together and i really like him and he feels the same way too.Thing is he ...

A.   12 October 2012: Bond girl,we only hold hands, hug snd cuddle because we don't wanna rush.Im not for the idea of having sex with the people i'm only dating.I think i wanna get to know him more before jumping into anythng or more so being in a relationship with ... (read in full...)

Should I date this guy with no job and who didn't go to college? I like him!

Q.   Hey guys,I've been friends with this dude since early this year.(March to be precise).Well, we exchanged numbers and really hit it off.Lately we've been spending lots of time together and i really like him and he feels the same way too.Thing is he ...

A.   11 October 2012: Well he didn't go to College because of financial issues and this hasn't put him down.Futhermore he ain't picky when it comes to jobs,he does what can bring food to the table and doesn't complain.He mentioned that before we met he had this job but ... (read in full...)

Should I date this guy with no job and who didn't go to college? I like him!

Q.   Hey guys,I've been friends with this dude since early this year.(March to be precise).Well, we exchanged numbers and really hit it off.Lately we've been spending lots of time together and i really like him and he feels the same way too.Thing is he ...

A.   10 October 2012: Thanks guys for responding. Well he actually lives alone and does odd jobs to pay rent, buy food,etc. So i wouldn't call that a job because at times there's no work and he has to struggle. Basically he is pretty hardworking but hasn't gotten lucky ... (read in full...)

Need your input, please?. Why am I so afraid to talk to people? It's affecting me at work.

Q.   Hi guys....I remember duing my teens i had quite a personality....but as the years progressed that kinda changed. I went through a difficult phase as i approached my twenties.I lost my father and my family and i went through financial difficul...

A.   21 August 2012: Thanks guys for the input,i really appreciate your views.... (read in full...)

He made plans and then just didn't show up!

Q.   Hey guys,theres this guy who was introduced to me by my sister.He wanted to get know me....so ive known him for a month basicaly.Thing is he was to come to my town last weekend so that we could spend time together....but apparently he didn't come at ...

A.   4 June 2012: One more thing...incase he does call me.....should i just ignore him or what??... (read in full...)

He made plans and then just didn't show up!

Q.   Hey guys,theres this guy who was introduced to me by my sister.He wanted to get know me....so ive known him for a month basicaly.Thing is he was to come to my town last weekend so that we could spend time together....but apparently he didn't come at ...

A.   4 June 2012: Thaks for the input guys.....i think i'l just let him be.... (read in full...)

A cycle 18 days long?

Q.   Hi guys,Is it normal to have an eighteen day menstrual cycle?Its January and i am having my second period this month.Thanks!...

A.   31 January 2012: Initially my cycle was after 21 days but then i just noticed recently that i get my menses after 18 days!No bleeding after sex and have never had a smear..Il definitely book an appointment with my Gyn!Thanks guys!... (read in full...)

He is a loner - should I be worried?

Q.   Hi guys, the guy im currently seeing confessed that he is a loner and the best times are when he is alone, should i be worried?...

A.   14 December 2011: We both enjoy each others company and he does like spending time with me.At times he likes being alone though....and i give him space.Thanks for your advice!... (read in full...)

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