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writes:i,ve been talking to a guy on a dating web site for 8 weeks he seems really nice but he keeps saying we should meet but every time i suggest a day or time he can never make it i sent him my mobile but hes never used it what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 June 2013):
 you should delete his info and say NEXT...he's a game player and a time waster.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2013): I'm so sad with all there comments. We have the same problem. The difference, i'm the one who's nervous to met him. When the date we met is near. First i ask him to extend...then last i back out...i feel i can't make it...honestly i cry, why i'm so coward. that's 3 year's ago.
But now if he ask me again...I will allow him to visit me...
So, if you really love him, ask him what really his reason. 8 weeks it's not long enough...
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (6 June 2013):
 He is either playing the field or he is married and loves the attention he gets from the website.
Time to move on , if this is so diffivult even before you met imagine what he would be like when u start dating him. Love should not be so hard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2013): You should forget him. He has something else going on. He is probably in a relationship, or married or dating someone. Whichever of those three is going on, he is unsure about. Either because he is an extremely insecure person or because they are having problems in the relationship. So he is on a dating site stringing people along (you being one of them) just in case his current flame doesn't work out. He doesn't like to be alone.
He is drama. You don't need that. Forget him, you can do better.
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reader, Mariab +, writes (6 June 2013):
 I would just tell it like it is.... Commit to a date and show me that you are serious or there's no point in continuing to spend time. 8 weeks is long enough! Put the ball in his court and see how he responds...xx
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (6 June 2013):
 Sadly it's probably because he is already in a relationship of some kind. A lot of people use dating sites just to pass time and chat to people. It's a covert way of gaining some attention, having a fanciful connection but never having to take things further. People who do this don't have to tell the truth or consider the other persons feelings because they never meet in person and with one click, that person can be ejected.
Of course it could be that he has other issues but people who are loners and do not wish to be sociable usually avoid anything which brings them into contact with other people.
Don't waste your time, move on and find someone else to form a relationship with.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (6 June 2013):
 After 8 weeks if he can't call your or organize a date, I would assume he has some other issue and stop contacting him and ignore him if he contacts you again. Sorry it didn't work out but he's had ample time to actually show up and meet you.
Good luck.
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reader, human_male  +, writes (6 June 2013):
 He might just be really nervous, or he might not have any intention of meeting you. Either move on now, accept things the way they are, or give him one more chance and tell him that if he doesn't follow through you're moving on (assuming you would rather stop wasting your time and move on than accept the situation the way it is).
If people really want to meet they find a way to make it work. I never buy the "I would like to but I'm just too busy." excuse.
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