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writes:My boyfriend is two years older than me and has had a lot of sexual experience, whereas I have had none. He keeps pressuring me into giving him a blowjob but I don't want to. I don't know how to tell him to stop pressuring me and will he think less of me for saying so?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2007): The fact that he's two years older than you has no bearing on the situation. If the age difference isn't stopping you from dating then it shouldn't be telling you what you can and cannot do with him either.
If you don't wanna do something with him, then DON'T DO IT WITH HIM!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): my boyfriend has done that to me babe but i dont feel comfortable just tell him no , if he thinks of you less then he isnt worth it just try and talk to him. gud luck xx
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reader, sexi  +, writes (21 August 2007):
 Hi,dont do what you dont want to.Just tell him that you are not comfortable with doing so and if he really loves you he would stop asking and take things at your pace.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, Loobie +, writes (21 August 2007):
 Then don't, it really is that simple. He should respect your decision, if he can't then he doesn't deserve you. Any sexual experience should be mutually enjoyable, he wouldn't do something he didn't like would he?
Stand up for yourself and if he uses emotional blackmail, ie, threatens to end the relationship, then tell him to take a hike.
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reader, kenny +, writes (21 August 2007):
 You should never ever be pressured into something that you do not want to do. Also i think its wrong of him to push you, esspessialy as he knows you don't want to. Also you are under 16 and should not be doing things like this anyway.
I think the question you have to ask yourself is do you want to be with a guy who pressures you into doing things you are not comfortable with?.
Good luck x
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reader, love-him +, writes (21 August 2007):
 hey babe, this isnt a relationship you want to keep in. this lad is pressurin u n he obviously knows u dont wanna but keeps askin u.. tell him straight, no u dnt want to giv him a blowjob n then if he continues u have to say it int workin cos he cant go around tellin u wot 2 do.. luk after urself n mail me if u wanna talk x x x
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reader, Skeez +, writes (21 August 2007):
 If he is pressuring you to do something which your not comfatable doing then dont do it. Whether he likes it or not. If he keeps nagging and telling you to do it then just dump his ass. Or otherwise hes going to have to stop and realise that your not some old girlfriend who is a beast on her hind legs.
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reader, LethalInjection-x +, writes (21 August 2007):
 If he is pressuring you into something you don't want to do you can do so much better than him.
If you're under 16 then it's also illegal aswell so he could get into a lot of trouble.
Just calmly tell him you don't want to.
If he's worth your time he shouldn't think any less of you, honestly.
But if he persists, you should really dump him.
You'll feel better about yourself afterwards.
Hope that helps.
xx
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