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Him and I get on great as friends but SHE keeps getting in the way!

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Question - (20 August 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 August 2007)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and he is lovley. However, before me, he had a crush on his 'best girl mate'. However his friend ended up getting together with her, so obviously it was forgotten. They are still 'best friends'. When me and him are together all is lovley, but he always seems to talk about her, and sees a lot of her, I went to see him the other night and we went round to hers for dinner. I can tell that there is chemistry between them, and she always bad mouths me to him, she clearly doesn't want us to be together. I feel so insecure about it. She acts so lovley and nice, but I know she fancies him, and he must still like her??? I don't know what to do? :0( x x x

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A female reader, sammy_k United Kingdom +, writes (21 August 2007):

hey bbe well if your that close to this boy then maybe you could try talking to him about it and ask for a bit of just you and him time this is what happened with me and my boyfriend at first but now he dont really talk to the other girl anymore. i no you dont want it to end up in a bitch fight but maybe you could ask her why she doesnt really like you and hiim being together xxxxx hope everything works out bbe but just remember if his gonna always pick her over you then you deserve better xxxx

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