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writes:i often meet my friend's friends and i met this one guy. after a few times of meeting him i got a bit drunk and kissed him. we hadn't really been friends before this but we met up a few times after and i really liked him. one day i invited him out with some friends of mine but he ignored me all night and spent the whole time with this other girl. i got angry and kissed someone else. i still really like him and regret what i did but he says he cant get over it even though it was two months ago. i'm quite pretty and i know other guys like me but i cant stop thinking about him. i dont know how to get him back or if i should even be trying. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): Dont run after him. Just have one last ditch attempt at saying your sorry, and leave it at that, if that isnt good enough then move on. But be aware in the future not to kiss someone else. If he doesnt want you lovely then someone else out there and there are plenty more lovely guys out there, so stop whittling and go get one.
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reader, Twirly +, writes (10 April 2008):
 PS You have absolutely nothing to apologise for as he made it clear that he wasn't interested, and you were single and free to kiss who you please!
Don't apologise! It's his problem not yours! x x x
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reader, Twirly +, writes (10 April 2008):
I agree with A Cappella here. It was only a kiss and it was 2 months ago!
If he can't get over it then you're just going to have to let him go Sweetie. I would try to forget about him and get on with your life. If he does like you, nothing would stop him from asking you out.
Good luck! x x x
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reader, Casey.x +, writes (10 April 2008):
 well you did kiss another guy waht'd you expect :s if he likes you.... i think you should apologize
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reader, A Cappella  +, writes (10 April 2008):
 So he spent time with another girl, while ignoring you, but he's the one who's put out because you didn't continue to hang on his every word? Humph. That sounds really odd to me.
Did the two of you ever have any reason to be exclusive? Had you had the talk that says you'll only be with each other? If so, then he broke it first. If not, then he really doesn't have a beef.
In either case, if this is the way he's going to treat you you shouldn't be trying to get back with him. Walk away, hold your head up, and don't look back. Don't be afraid to be alone for the right reasons; you'll be happier in the long run.
Work on your self confidence (believe me, self confidence is SEXY) and on being comfortable in your own skin. Then you'll be available when Mr. Right walks by, and he'll notice you, believe me.
Good luck hon.
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reader, rcn +, writes (10 April 2008):
 All you can do is be sincere in your apology. A hint for the future, kissing someone else to get attention from the other person is not the best way in dealing with the issue. All it does is compiles where you have the issue with him, than created an additional issue on top. It's much easier to deal with one than with two separate issues
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reader, she makes me feel +, writes (10 April 2008):
 wait it out, either you will get over it or he will. if you're quite pretty then you'll probably get over it sooner.
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