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*eauty8990
writes:Is he cheating when i find condoms in the car and i know that we dont use them. but he say that they been in there. unused but its the fact that he has condoms in the car.... also is he hinding something from me when he wont let me see his phone sayin that i dont pay his bill so there fore im not allowed to see the phone and whenever im around him he keeps that phone glued 2 him he takes it everywhre claiming that he dont want to run 2 da phone everytime it rings so thats why he keeps it on him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): Your man is definately cheating on you.If you want a serious relationship where your partner is faithful, look elsewhere.If you stay you will have to accept his cheating ways.Leave him you deserve better
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reader, hijacked_dignity +, writes (24 August 2009):
 Listen. There is a difference between snooping and just asking to use his phone. If he is being touchy even when you just want to see his phone to check something out, then there is something wrong. Just ask if you can make a call through his phone, or maybe send a text because yours is out of batteries. If he is hovering over you or refuses to let you see the phone, there is definitely something wrong. As for the condoms, that's a bit sketchy. Maybe count them before and then see if any go missing?
Either way, the two signs don't look good. I would start thinking about getting rid of him if you don't think you can trust him. Trust is the fundamental part of all relationships, and without it, life is miserable.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (24 August 2009):
 When has he started being protective of his cell? Was he always like that? Do you know how many condoms are in the car? Are any missing? If he just started being protective of his cell then he is hiding something from you. Trust your gut on this one, if you think he is cheating then try to gather evidence and confront him. You deserve better then a cheater!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 August 2009):
 I don't think it is your "right" as a GF to check his phone or his car. But.. maybe if he has nothing to hide he would let you have at the phone.
Condoms in the car? Odd. How long have you been dating? Any expiration date on condoms? There can be many benign reasons for the condoms in his car, from friends, to pranks to just old condoms. Though, mind you why are they still there? To me it seems a little odd place to stash condoms unless you don't want to be caught in a place where condoms are needed.
Maybe you two need to talk a little about trust and respect.
To be perfectly honest if you feel like you HAVE to snoop, you can not have a lot of trust in your man.
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