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writes:Hi there's this guy I been dating for a month, recently the last few days whatever I say annoys him he hangs up on me when he believes I'm asking a stupid question when I don't think I am. So yesterday he thought I asked stupid question when all wanted to do was know more about the topic. When he hanged up he said don't talk to me u ask stupid questions he then blocked me on what's app. I did try ring a few times until I just sent him a text message saying "I'm gona give u space", I then tried ringing him two hours later no reply, so he text me saying "I thought u said u were gona give me space?" I then said "I will but let me know in next few days what's going in with us". My question is what's he thinking or am I stupid for questioning things? What shall I do? I'm kind of stuck in limbo if we're together or not? What am I suppose to think and what am I suppose to do?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 November 2015):
 You are supposed to think that by now he knows you are a doormat, at least with him, and he feels he can treat you any rude and horrible way he wants since you'll just take it. Maybe with a bit of sulking and hand wringing, " oh my, what am I going to do ", but eventually will take anything he may dish out.
You can prove him right, or you can prove him wtong. Your choice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2015): So basically he back in contact with me like nothing happened what an u suppose to think?
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reader, mystiquek  +, writes (16 November 2015):
 You asked "What I am supposed to think?"
1. It's over
2. Thank God you weren't married to him!
3. Break all contact and run like the wind in the other direction
Why on earth would you even consider staying with someone who is so rude and childish? He hangs up on you when he thinks you are talking stupid?? Girl! Get some back bone! The first time a man did/said that to me it would also be the LAST time!
Thank you lucky stars he showed himself before you married him. Lick your wounds and move on to a man who will treat you with love and RESPECT. They are out there!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (16 November 2015):
 You're not in limbo. You and he are *over*. You'll never get back together. He is a complete asshat.
What are you supposed to think? That he is not worth the human waste you flushed down the toilet this morning.
What are you supposed to do?? Treat him as if he is DEAD to you. When you think of him, think of vomit, old boogers, a cat's hairball, a dog's diarrhea, morning breath, etc. Anything that fills you with disgust at having touched, looked at, or smelled.
In short, you need to look in the mirror, tell yourself that you can't be so desperate as to actually want to breathe another word into this boy's direction, let alone contact him and throw yourself at him.
There is something wrong with him, and if you continue to pine after him, then there might be something wrong with you as well. Consider being rejected by the likes of THAT to be a badge of honor.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 November 2015):
 Jeeez girl!
Block his number, cut him lose! Forget about him. He is a rude twit!
Someone who TREATS you like that, you don't chase after and throw yourself at.
He think you are stupid and annoying. DOES that sound like a guy who LIKES you? To me it sure doesn't.
Now you didn't mention what question set him off, and honestly I'm not even sure that is important. WHAT IS important is that YOU need to STOP and think. DON'T allow someone to treat you like rubbish.
So BLOCK him and cut him lose (you don't have to ring him and tell him, he'll get it).
He didn't block you because he wants a "break" or "space" from you. He is not into you and was being rude about it.
It's only been a month so neither of you can be THAT involved or invested.
Chin up, girl. His loss.
And next time you met a guy, try and keep the "getting to know you" phase OFF the phone, and IN person.
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