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writes:I have a problem...I keep geting really attached and having deep feelings and 'falling in love' with people who I can't be with because they live so far away! It really sucks. I am a 17 year old girl who just graduated high school and will probably be going onto university next year if I get accepted. I only applied for local uni's where I live (a average size city) because my parents think I am to young to move out of home and to be honest, I would be sooooo scared about it! But I really want to move. I have become so close to a couple of guys who lived far far away. Like a 14 hour drive away.I don't want to be attached to them but I am and seem to continue geting attached to people I meet who live far away. It sucks. What can i do?I plan to move away ffrom home when I graduated uni, which will be another 3 years. But one of my friends who I love so so sooooooo much is planing on moving away at the end of next year with one of his friends to a completely different state of Australia! I secretly think he secretly likes her too...but thats a whole other issue I have to talk about that just makes me jealous and angry.So I worry that my plans to move closer to him are going to be ruined because he wants to move away wiht one of his friends at the end of next year when he graduates uni!What do i do? ive tried to think of ways to turn him off moving but I cant. The only thing I can think of saying is that he shoudl stay there so when I move we can be so close together! But then I dont wanna say that. And seriously who knows if we will feel the same way about each other? hes told me that if I was there, he would date me and he says that he cares for me alot and considers me one of his best friends.So if thats true then why would he want to move futher away from me? So far he doesnt know my plans to move to where he lives. I havent really told him about it.Perhaps do u thhink I should say to him that when i graduate uni i plan on moving there? So then maybe if he has that in his mind, he might not move? If he does move though, i am honestly gona feel dumped. Any advice?
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (30 November 2006):
 If he likes you as much as you like him then he won't move. If he does move out, then don't feel sad because you don't wanna be with someone who doesn't like u as much as u like him anyways. Does he know u like him this much? Maybe u should let him know. Maybe he's not considering staying because he doesn't know that u like him this much. I'm 18 by the way LOL. Guys give us all a hard time. Have you tought of dating someone local? is there anyone u like that lives around you?
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