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writes:I recently read up on a msn conversation my girlfriend had with another guy. It was very intriging. How do I get over it. How do I know if she is cheating. I need help
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2007): Hun, I am sure you can tell by reading this conversation if she is cheating. Did she tell you that this guy and her are friends and have been chatting? Was she honest about that to begin with. She should've been. Are you stating that the word 'intriging' means, that there is sexual intent, insinuations of cheating, loving words? If so, then this may be going beyond the boundaries of a friendship? If so, then it's possible she is cheating or is in the process of beginning to. If the word 'intriguing' simply means they had a lighthearted banter and fun conversation, then that doesn't mean she is cheating. But a word of caution. I do have to say though..you are a guy. You know how other guy's think. It's highly like this friend of hers on msn, has his own agendas. Guys who becomes friends with females, quite often do think of them in 'sexual' terms. Females tend to overlook that. Best talk to her and ask her, what's really going on. You have the right to know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2007): I had that a lot with my boyfriend over the last year and a half.
A lot of the time it was just me overreacting and reading in to things too much.
But once or twice it was just him "harmlessly flirting". IE : He didnt realise how much it hurt me/would hurt me.
Talk to her about it,but flirty people find it hard to stop so you sometimes have to just accept it.
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reader, rk06  +, writes (8 June 2007):
 Well man, this is a tough situation. I had a similar one. I saw a message in my girlfriend's myspace inbox, and it looked like she was cheating. I confronted her on it, because I thought she had, and I was convinced that I was right. That was three weeks ago, and things have been VERY rocky since then. My advice? Ask her, in a non-accusing way. If she says no, just believe her. If she truly did cheat, you will find out eventually.
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