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anonymous
writes:Hi , I'd like a guys opinion on this.I have been talking to my ex again and we got together again but hes pretty bad at the whole texting/ringing thing? He does text back straight away if I text him and he is really sweet in the messages, but then he could go days without texting me. I usually never text him first I always wait for him. He had previously said to me when we were together that he was kind of annoyed that I never texted him first. When we are together he is really warm and I know by the way he looks at me that he likes me. But this contact thing is getting to me. Is he blowing me off? What do you think do guys think?? I know that girls can blow things out of proportion sometimes!! Should I just wait until I see him again which should be this weekend and see what happens then???Thanks!!
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 he doesn't txt alot because he doesn't want to seem desperate.guys try and take a bit of time between calls and txt to play it cool. it's nothing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): I'm not very comfortable with text or phone communication and prefer to talk with people face to face. Maybe he is the same way? It could be that words on a screen or a voice from a speaker don't convey emotions to him. The way he wants you to feel emotions from him and send his feeling to you can't be conveyed (at least in his mind) that way.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (26 August 2007):
Dittos on that anonymous guy's comment too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): Yes, you are blowing this out of proportion. He isnt texting you enough?! You're not in high school anymore.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (25 August 2007):
There you go. Kay KAy is right.
Plus, some people are just really bad when it comes to contact and some people are really not big on text messages, they just know it is a big part of life now and they go with it here and there.
I think you should judge his interest by the time you spend together, but talk about making more contact time for each other. He might just be one of those scatter-brain types when he isn't with you, always caught up in doing a bunch of different things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk you're right. I'm just worried that I'd be smothering him??? He was with a girl before me for a short time who turned out to be a psycho so I don't want to come across as needy and crazy... Also as we are kind of in limbo - we aren't officially back together yet so I suppose i'm bit scared. Thanks!!
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