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writes:I met this guy a few weeks ago, we exchanged info and talked twice in the past couple of weeks. I have this feeling he is 'the one' and I barely know him. Im pretty sure he doesnt feel the same exact way, but I still think he likes me. The first time I saw him I just knew. I think about him all the time, but we barely talk. He seemed real interested in me the first three weeks but now we rarely chat. Do you think its really possible to feel this away about someone I barely know? Do you think I should just forget him since he doesn't seem interested anymore? I REALLY like him but I dont want to get hurt. Please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (11 January 2006):
i sense he has lost interest in taking things to the next level and in all honesty, he is not THE one but someone who was right for that particular time in your life.
Try asking him out on a date and if he gives you excuses then cut your losses and move on.
You will know by every bone in your body when you meet mr Right. It will feel like the last piece of the jigsaw slotting into your life.
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reader, StarNews +, writes (10 January 2006):
 If you really like him, you may need to take that chance, even if you discover he doesn't feel the same way. Not knowing is worse than knowing, I think you would agree. Maybe he feels the same way that you do, and will be happy you called. How are you going to know if you don't try?
Since you said that you have only known him for a few weeks, you may want to hold off telling him how you feel. In the meantime, find ways to spend time getting to know him.
So now the issue is how to spend time with him. If you have his number, call him. I wouldn't leave a message if he doesn't answer. I would wait until he answers the phone so you can get a direct answer. I don't know how old you are, so I am looking at this from more of an adult point of view. Ask him if he would like to go for coffee, or think of a reason to call him. Tell him you need help with something, as men enjoy knowing when we need their help, things like moving furniture, programming your DVD player, etc. Good luck!
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reader, msxcarlett +, writes (10 January 2006):
If you are sure that he doesnt feel for you the way in which you would like, I wouldnt waste time on him!.Move on..maybe the fact that you have "moved on" will spark up some kind of emotion in him..if not leave him and look for someone who will give you what you want. If all he does is send you mixed emotions then he isnt the one for you.
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reader, aunty alice +, writes (10 January 2006):
although you think he is the one i wouldn't tell him I'm sure you have all these mixed emotions but maybe you shold discuss it with him after all if it does freak him out and he cannot exept it maybe he is not the one after all
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (10 January 2006):
 Unfortunately, there is no sure fire way to prevent from getting hurt in any relationship. After only a few weeks, your attraction to him may be very strong, but I would give it more time before deciding this is the one to spend the rest of your life with. If you feel like you want the relationship to move forward perhaps you could talk to him. Share with him your feelings of wishing to persue something more serious. If it were me I would leave out the part about thinking he could be the one, statements like that too early in a relationship could make a guy feel a bit pressured to have something more than they are ready for. Good luck.
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reader, aunty alice +, writes (10 January 2006):
although you think he is the one i wouldn't tell him I'm sure you have all these mixed emotions but maybe you shold discuss it with him after all if it does freak him out and he cannot exept it maybe he is not the one after all
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reader, Kazanne101 +, writes (10 January 2006):
Is it him you really like or the idea of him? Sounds to me that you've convinced yourself this is the right one. If you really want to find out you'll have to ask him how he feels - men aren't always the best at expressing their feelings in words but sorry to say this silence speaks volumes.
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