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writes: I really like this guy and he has cheated on his girlfriend (my best friend) to be with me and I am scared that when I do get with him he will cheat on me. Is this true?
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reader, Jessica1355  +, writes (19 May 2010):
He won't cheat on you if he likes you that much. My mom's a teacher and she's heard gossip. This female teacher was cheating on her boyfriend with another teacher who also worked at our school. When he found out, he was an emotional wreck. He did some bad things and got fired. This female teacher and the male teacher she was cheating on her ex with have been engaged since last summer and are still going strong. They're getting married this summer.So yes, people change. If he does end up cheating on you, it'll suck. But shit happens to the best people. Right?
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reader, jessiemarie  +, writes (2 September 2008):
ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER!!He did it to get you,he most likely will do it to you...You're better off being open and honest,especially if you really value your relationship.Just talk to him about it,don't attack him,just be calm.
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reader, Befuddled1  +, writes (2 September 2008):
 You must care a lot about him to betray your best pal, sometimes things happen and we don't mean to hurt anyone but we do. But can a leopard change its spots?And if it cant, do you deserve to feel the pain you have inflicted on another?I'm no angel so I wish you well and hope you find a way to trust him and give him a chance because you already gave a good friend upx
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reader, shiraz +, writes (1 September 2008):
hiyah, you never can say really but theres always that insecurity in the relationship that doesnt go away so it would probablly affect your relationship before its properly started (and so wil carry on throughout), but really harsh as it sounds you only have yourselves to blame for that. its sorta harsh got with him while he was with your best friend , but i spose theres more to it than were all aware of and im not a judgemental person..
apart from that i hope it works out ok what ever you do but the fact that your already doubting your relationship says a lot...
best of luck :)
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reader, sappygirl  +, writes (1 September 2008):
 no guy is worth over losing a best friend for.
I can't believe you did this to her. Shouldn't you concentrate on apologizing for hurting your best friend and getting her back..instead of this loser who has been with both girls?
Guys come and go, but true friend are hard to find.
Unless YOU're not the true friend. Think about it.
If it's worth losing your BFF over, then stay with the guy,
but most likely he will get bored once the excitement wears off and move on to the next girl. good luck
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (1 September 2008):
 I agree with the others. Get your hands on a copy of Angel and Angel Uncovered, both by Katie Price. In the first book Angel is tripping over a hottie called Cal, he's with someone called Mel and he makes out with Angel, thus cheating on Mel. Later on in the book he's with someone called Simone, and he starts a sexual relationship with Angel. Still cheating on Simone. Angel and Cal get engaged and the book ends.In Angel Uncovered they're married and they've got a baby, in Angel he swore he'd never cheat on her. They're famous, Angel is a model and Cal is a footballer, in Angel Uncovered he's transfered to an Italian team and Angel hates it there and she's suffering from postnatal depression. She moves back to England. About half way through the book a story comes out saying he's cheated on her. She confronts him and he says it was just a one night stand and it was really her fault because she was in England when he needed her support in Italy. Then it comes out that he's been having an affair for 3 months with an Italian wag. I know hardly any of this applies to you, but I'm trying to tell you that men will lie their way out of anything and will make you promise after promise, and hardly any of them will be kept. Chances are he will cheat on you, it may not be right away but after the 'honeymoon' period he'll be cheating on you with someone else.Apart from that, I think you should be disowned by your best friend for doing that to her, I guess you can't control who you fall for, but your best friends boyfriend? Pull yourself together, ditch him, grovel to her and I mean REALLY grovel and find someone who'll treat you right.NB: No offence guys, I didn't mean all of you are like that! Just the majority ;) x Becky x
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reader, Emajayne +, writes (1 September 2008):
 WAIT a second..ur best friend? u arent exactly being a best friend in return now are u....u know...letting her boyfriend cheat on her with u. If i were ur best friend id never want to talk to u again and would dream about getting revenge. The whole "he cheated to be with me so will he cheat on me?" question isnt nessesarily true but the chances are significantly higher. It is more a question about trust, and how much he is really dedicated to the situation. If he could cheat on your best friend, a person that u really admire and maybe dont see any flaws with, a person that he should have been dedicated 100% to, but he cheated anyways...whats gonna happen then?
He could just see u as a bit on the side, but then it went horribly wrong and all was found out. I would forget the entire situation unless ur best friend is the understanding anti murder type person. You should be scared here, i know i would be.
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reader, ItsEmma +, writes (1 September 2008):
 /: I can't believe you would do that to your best friend. What kind of a friend ARE you?
But *sigh*, to answer your question, I'll just say,
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
And leave it at that.
~Emma
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reader, Aunty Em +, writes (1 September 2008):
 It isn't necessarily true. But if he can do it for you then he can certainly do it to you. I'd watch out. And even if he did, it would be your just deserts. This was your best friend after all ...
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reader, supermum +, writes (1 September 2008):
 The only thing i can say is probably.. yes.
Sorry this is harsh, but if he does it to one, he will likely do it to another.
I obviously cant say for sure, but it seems likely
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