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writes:when he broke up with me after about 2 1/2 weeks,he said he just wants to be friends cause he needs to focus on some stuff and he feels bad he isnt spending enough time with me cause hes busy. but he kept using the words "right now" im wondering if this means he plans on getting back together sometime or not. and if he still likes me.
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reader, This_face  +, writes (26 October 2008):
Maybe he says right now because he doesn't want to say forever and hurt you more. By saying for now it sounds less painful. Sort of like when someone leaves and they say see you later. See you later sounds a lot nicer than good bye forever. Like other Aunts said, go on and live your life. If he had things to deal with and was busy then now he is free to do all of that, and you should do the same. It could be possible that he still has feelings for you, but that he doesn't want to date you. However, if you both care about each other you will respect each other and let each other go and do what you have to do. Who knows, maybe he pictures the future being less busy? If it works out in the future it will work out. Life has lots of surpises so you can't sit and wonder while it all goes on. You two might have something in the future, but for the moment you do not so you should both use the moments you have in the ways you want.
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reader, jabey  +, writes (25 October 2008):
men use words and they back this up with their actions, and we must take the actions and words if consisent at face value. He says right now he has not the time for you. Who knows maybe one day he will. But the best thing you can do is accept what he is saying and carry on with your life. Do your own thing, date others and carry on. If he is at all interested in you he will not like to see you moving on and may try harder to carry on seeing you.
I expect your a gorgeous lovely girl who has a lot to offer, and realistically you deserve a boyfriend who has got the time for you right now.!!! you are specail and deserve that.
So carry on with life, enjoy your friends and hobbies, and then if he decides to come to you then great if not, you have not sat around wondering, but you have enjoyed your life. xxxgood luck xxx
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reader, shiraz +, writes (25 October 2008):
hiyah to start with he broke up with you so do you really want him back? i think hes using the right now excuse to try and break it off gently if he were genuine he would put what ever aside and include you in his 'busy' life. it seems hes trying to tell you in the nicest way possible although its never what we want to hear. its sad but you will move on i wouldnt hang around for this guy as i dont think hes there yet if you get me sorry best of luck x :)
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