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I've been having an affair with my boss. How can I end it and explain to him what it is I'm looking for?

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Question - (25 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 October 2008)
A age 36-40, * writes:

Im seeing a bloke at work and he's my boss. Were both married. (yeah i know im stupid for doing it). We only see each other when he is staying over in the nearest hotel. We have seen each other 3 times now. I admit its exciting and passionate and thats what makes it hard to give it up. Only thing is he doesnt ever txt me back when i txt him anymore. He says he still wants to see me but its like he's not bothered either way. Im not asking for anything more then sex but i think as a mistress i too deserve respect etc.

Im a straight talker and will tell him. Id rather not get into confrontations with him but i want him begging for more i want him to get obsessed!! but why and how??? i know he sticks up for me at work because other workers have told me. Its like i make up petty little things just so i can see him. Thats not like me! im in LUST with him.

I dont want to end it i just want him to be more interested with me. Thats the whole point of an affair isnt it???? i mean i would sooner end it then let it be just casual sex because i would want something more involved. So really how can i end it and explain to him what it is im looking for????

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A male reader, benefattore United States +, writes (26 October 2008):

benefattore agony auntWhy dont you just divorce your husband and go sleep with every guy you want? That obviously will make you happier. You seem more concerned with this manwhore boss of yours than the person you promised to love forever. You don't respect your husband or the wife of your boss.

You don't deserve any respect because you're not giving respect to anyone back. Before you even started to cheat you should have told your husband what he's doing wrong and what kind of attention you were needing.

Make your choice, come clean, or stop wasting your poor husband's time, money, and life. We don't need anymore of you women in this world.

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