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writes:Im a 18 yo mum to a 10month little girl, and i was seeing a 52yo man with a 12yo son...things were going absolutly fine the four of us got along really well and we were doing things that normal familys do untill about 6months into the relationship (2days ago) he broke up with me and he said that it was because he didnt want his son to get too attached to me and me to get to attached to him and vice versa with him and my daughter. But the thing is i really love him and want to knw+what+i+should+do+to+try+get+back+with+him?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (31 March 2011):
 The age thing was not a problem ... for about 6 months.
Then it must have begun being a problem. Meaning, that if he does not want you get attached to each other kids, it's because he can't see your relationship becoming serious and you all living together as a family. And my guess is that the age difference has to do with it. Anybody would be hesitant in giving their kid a stepmom who's only 6 years older than the kid.
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reader, Youngmum111 +, writes (31 March 2011):
Youngmum111 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe age thing was never a problem before, i mean my daughters father is 38.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2011): Odds are good that he's trying to let you down easy. Sounds like he was getting uncomfortable that you could easily be his daughter. Hell, you were 6 when his son was born.
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reader, Youngmum111 +, writes (31 March 2011):
Youngmum111 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut he told me he loved m and my daughter. His son even started to call me mommy
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reader, SweetSmoochy  +, writes (31 March 2011):
 If he doesn't want you all to get attached, then he isn't ready for love or a family situation. He's made that abundantly clear by breaking up with you. While it is very painful for you I'm sure, please try to move forward for yourself and your little girl. There will one day be a man who will want to be in your family instead of being afraid of it.
Best of Luck
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