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writes: There is a guy that I like from work and a couple of my coworkers have been telling me that based on his actions, it seems that he feels the same way I do. I decided to tell him how I feel and I got one of my coworkers to ask him if he felt the same, but he said no...However (during that same day), after he sees me talking to my guy friends (who I only see as friends), the next time he sees my friends he starts giving them dirty looks and is glaring at them as if they did something wrong. Basically, he is acting like a jealous boyfriend anytime he notices me around another guy. His actions are saying that he likes me, but he keeps denying that he doesn't. I decided to ask him about the looks and he said that he wasn't aware of the looks that he was giving my friends and he isn't the jealous type anyways...My question is this: Why would this guy act jealous towards my guy friends when he is supposed to only like me as just a friend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust to clear this up. . .
He was giving my friends- my guy friends- the dirty looks. Not my other friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): You could just be reading too much into his expressions. Sometimes when people want something real bad they will make sense to their advantage out of anything. Why would he give your friends dirty looks if he was jealous of some guys you were talking to? That makes no sense. If he was jealous of you talking to some guys he would more likely give the guys dirty looks. Not your friends. It just sounds like you want to believe what you want to believe. I mean he said he didn't like you right?? So why do you doubt that?? You think he is lying?? Why would he lie??
Believe him! Believe what he said. I don't see why you would doubt him. Stop reading so much into what he does. And take it for what it is. He told you what was up. So forget what he does. Absorb what he said and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): He knows that you like him - this gives him an ego boost. Then he sees you talking to other men and reacts as though he is jelous. Sounds like he liked the idea of you wanting him and thinking of only him more than he let on. He is jelous and he does like you. Tackle him head on and see if there can be a happy ending.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): Maybe he's shy... And acting tough is his only way of showing emotion!! Guys are really weird like that...
The only other option is to ask him straight out how he feels about you. You haven't anything to loose
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