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writes:Well, my family and i are all moving away, which means right now, the house is being all redecked and its all new and nasty. But my mum is really stressing about it, she yelled at my sister till she cried (who is 18) and then my sister left home, My brother went to essex to escape. My love life is on the rocks as the guy im crazy about isnt interested anymore and my friends just treat me like dirt. I'm only young so i cant walk away, but I'm getting really depressed with everything so i started cutting myself to get it out of my system, i love my family and all, and i dno where i would be with out my friends. but at the moment No one really gives a damn, and i dont see a point to pretending i should.
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reader, home_land  +, writes (24 March 2007):
 hello
its really up to you friends and real friends will stand by you and if they didnt then you dont need to care that much abut them becouse simply they are not friends they are only people you know ,at this hard time within your family you have to be a support your mother and talk to your sister
and remember that your mother did strugel so much bringing you to this world and raising you and your sister and one day maybe you will be a mother and at that time you will understand the meaning and feelin of beeng mother ,give it a smaile and your family need your help :)
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (24 March 2007):
 One thing I should say...please stop cutting yourself!! It not only disfigures you, but it is also dangerous! You could suddenly cut yourself too deep and bleed to death!!!!
I know that moving to a new area and leaving the house, your friends, ect is hard on not only you but your family. Please talk to a counselor or a professional person that can help you!
What I do when I get depressed and stress-out, I would have a notebook and write my negative horrible feeling down on the paper....then I tear up what I wrote down into tiny pieces and throw it away...and my negative feelings are gone! Give it a try! (Also write how you feel in a poem)
A new start might be a good thing...meet new friends and new relationships that might be lot better than the one you had!!
Please keep us informed on how you are doing....I care what happens to you!!! Just stop cutting yourself, Please!
Prayers and Hugs to you!!!
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reader, Doc Thairish +, writes (24 March 2007):
 first of all im really sorry to hear you are going through a hard time!
im 27 and my family mean the world to me, yes we have our ups and downs but they love me, just like im sure your family love you and they would be saddened to here that you are self harming!
mums get stressed, that does'nt mean she dont care, try pull your mum aside and talk to her, if you cant is there someone you can talk to because i dont know you but even im worried about you self harming so please try and talk to someone coz you should'nt have to go through this on your own!
friends come and they go, if they treat you like dirt then they dont deserve your friendship!
take care and good luck!!!!!!!!
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