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writes: I am 38 and she would be around 27.Her office is next to mine but i dont know her name.A month back i repeatedly noticed her looking at me.I became curious(i had put on weight and didnt think a pretty girl would look at me) and we started stealing glances.There is a common area where we make calls and she would come and stand close to me while on phone.We started looking at each other more directly.I couldnt help feeling she liked me.Then suddenly her flip flops started.One day she would look at me with interest and next day ignore as if i didnt exist.She doesnt seem married,I am.She seems a very shy girl who doesnt talk much with her colleagues too.In the last 1 month I have almost transformed my body by serious gym work.I felt motivated.But her flip flops confuse me.Does she like me ?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (29 August 2017):
Would you be happy if your wife went for a coffee and with a chat if she felt some man liked her?
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reader, good man +, writes (27 August 2017):
good man is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am happily married and didnt make any plans to be with this new girl.She started glancing at me,it continued and i felt good.I only wish to understand if what she has been doing is actually a liking for me or not.Even if it is,the maximum i had thought of was having a cup of coffee with her,a good nice chat and get it over with.Nothing more.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (27 August 2017):
If you are married, you should not be considering taking this any further, regardless of what her feelings towards you may or may not be.
For a start off, you have no proof she feels anything towards you that is in the least romantic. She may feel sorry for you, or feel you are "safe" because you are older/married and/or so out of shape.
She has motivated you to get back in shape. Keep up the good work and put your energy into putting sparkle back into your marriage so that your head is not so easily turned by someone giving you a second glance.
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reader, Anonymous 123 +, writes (27 August 2017):
You're married. It doesn't and shouldn't matter at all, whether or not she likes you. Keep it in your pants and be faithful to your wife. Stop being the sleazy older married office guy who looks at women on the sly and fantasizes about them. You're being gross and totally inappropriate and I hope you know that at best you could get fired and a sexual harrassment case against you and at worst a divorce.
Grow a conscience.
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