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writes:A question for the guys ... Have you ever seen a woman and been so turned on that you felt the need to go and relieve yourself .... I ask because my bf said he did this before we were together . He saw a very sexy woman one day out and said he went somewhere private and did that . Is that normal ? And do men still do that even if they have a girlfriend that they are attracted to Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2014): Hi there, I have done this a few times over the years. Usually it has been where I have seen a attractive lady dressed in something sexy such as a short skirt and high heels. I even did this once over a female colleague, I just couldn't help myself and the desire was too great. In fact I did this last week when a female colleague of mine turned up to work in quite high heels and a skirt which wouldnt even be classes as short. Normally she wears trousers...
I guess some would say I should have more self control, however I think it is quite healthy.
I guess some people would beg to differ :S
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2014): My partner once did that when he was about 16-17 years old, and whilst he was at work!
Although funny/awkward, I don't think it's an issue as long as it's not a common occurrence.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (5 May 2014):
 I'm going to echo the others...I heard of that sort of thing when I was 14-15 and the guy was going through puberty before learning a man's restraint. However, full-grown guys doing that is creepy to me, unless there's some sort of medical condition.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2014): Op here .Thanks for the answers . One time he says the woman was flashing her underwear and smiling and doing so repeatedly the other time he just said that he saw this sex woman who was wearing a very see through outfit and had to relive himself when he got home
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 May 2014):
 Yikes.
I don't think it's normal. It's normal to NOTICE and be ATTRACTED to a hot chick or dude, but to need PRIVACY to rub one out? NOT normal. I mean can you imagine that guy on a beach full of hot almost naked people? Poor penis!
If my husband told me that I would be a little grossed out. Because it would mean he views woman as walking pieces of porn meat. GROSS.
If he saw an attractive woman and commented on it, I would have no problem, but if he NEEDED to touch himself because he saw a hot woman, yea.. nasty.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (4 May 2014):
 Do mean, "how many times PER DAY??????..."
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (4 May 2014):
 How old is your "boyfiend" if he is just now going through puberty then maybe I could understand but if he is over 18 or 19 then he is strange.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (4 May 2014):
 Not since I was 14. For an adult that's not normal at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2014): cmmp, I don't think he has control issues, I mean if he was on a day off walking, was already quite horny and bored walking along , then saw a reallly sexy woman, so he goes to masterbate. Why not? He had nothing better to do. Doesn't mean that everytime he sees a sexy woman he can't control oit and has to run off and make his excuses to relieve himself. I think it was a one off op, so I don't think it's a habitual occurence, don't worry about it.
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reader, Mark1978 +, writes (4 May 2014):
 Bit weird. Maybe if he was about 16 and pumped up with hormones, but if he's in a stable, sexual relationship and is a grown man...!
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reader, CMMP +, writes (4 May 2014):
Your boyfriend seems like he has some self control issues. I've seen women and got extremely horny, but I've never had to masterbate.
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reader, wise-guy +, writes (4 May 2014):
Hmmmm I can honestly say I've never done that, nor have I ever felt the need to
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reader, crushed_by_love +, writes (4 May 2014):
Even as a man , that seems a bit creepy to me.As a woman you probably think even more so.Surely if he did do that he should have kept it to himself. Eww!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2014): I'm assuming they may have to if it has caused an erection in a very awkward situation, like before going in to work or visiting your family, etcetera.
I don't think it's super common but many wouldn't admit it if they do have to do it on rare occasions.
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