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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:i have a question I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 35 we have one baby(4months boy) together and i have another child(4yrs boy) with another man ... i love him soo much but its like he stop caring loving for me .. i cheated on him with my ex about almost 2yrs ago its like he hasn't forgive me for what happen .. i lost 3babies from him and i finally got one i love him soo much i don't know if I'm depressed or what but i don't have anymore sex drive and its killing my relationship!I'm a stay home mom and all i do is cry because my relationship is ruined.. and that's not what i want..we lost respect towards each other ...i feel like as if I'm talking soo much and i don't know what to tell him or how to explain to him what i want and need.. i love him and don't want anyone else!please help me please i feel like someone just stabbed me a couple of times in my heart and now is empty !!!!! please someone help me please i have never felt like this and i don't know what to do about my life please I'm going crazy not knowing what to do ... i just wish he could be the same old babe that i meet when we got together :( :( i hate this i just wish i could fall back in-love with him and him do the same !!!!!!!!!!!) please let me know what you guys think and suggest me to do to help my relationship !!!!! sincerely,tatti
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reader, rcn +, writes (29 January 2009):
 First I want to you understand the psychological impact of cheating. The short version. Two people who claim to love each other, sex than takes the role of being the highest expression of that love. Cheating on the other is taking that expression of love and giving it to someone else, therefore devaluing the love you have for him.
With the information you gave, I can't see which areas need the most attention. What you do need to so is figure out what you want out of this relationship, and what he wants out of this relationship, and sit down and talk, being honest with each other about which direction you want this relationship to move.
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