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female
age
30-35,
*ophiethestar
writes:A few weeks ago me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time (We were both virgins btw). when my period was due, it didn't come and I thought a was pregnant because I also had a few other symptoms. It was a silly thought because we used a condom and it didn't break or anything. I was talking to my boyfriend about it. He panicked and told his Dad. Now both of his parents know we had sex and they don't like me as much as they used to. It's understandable because we are only 16, but how shall I act next time I see them? I'm not allowed round to their house to a while because they are disappointed and angry. How can I show them that they can totally trust me again next time a go to their house?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 When you say that they can totally trust you from now on, what exactly do you mean?
You recognize correctly that they are disappointed and angry, and it's directed at you and your boyfriend, and also at themselves, because they now think that they haven't done enough to protect you and your boyfriend from yourselves. Does that make sense? Sex is a very touchy topic and it leads to many problems, as you have found out the hard way.
So give it time, behave impeccably from now on, and eventually they'll get over the hurt and anger, but they may not trust you two to be alone again. Hormones sometimes keep people from thinking clearly and making good decisions, and parents are supposed to keep their children safe. So be polite, and contrite and don't dress inappropriately or try to break any rules they've set. It will eventually pass.
Take care.
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