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*eeraj21
writes:Hi, i am 29 yr gay, but i look like other normal guys, my family is pressurising me to get married, bt i dont like gls ,i like ther boobs bt nt vagina, i want to kno can i b able to fk my wife nd satisfy her? I am very tense,i have to marry,pls give me some solutions
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reader, Neeraj21 +, writes (6 August 2011):
Neeraj21 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut i am a lone son of my parents ,its imposible to tel them i've been gay in the past..My parents love and care for me a lot. i have a good job and good income too,i want to live a normal social life.i have done sex with guys and i enjoy it.But i don't want it any more.Instead i want to do everything for my wife. i will love her a lot, i give her pleasure.Can you suggest any links to articles inDearCupid that could help me show my love more to my wife?
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reader, LiveLoveRead  +, writes (5 August 2011):
Be yourself. Do not force an unhappy situation on your future or yourself. Don't get married to a woman.
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reader, Universe Man +, writes (5 August 2011):
Marrying a woman under the pressure of your family is understandable. But it's not the right thing to do. You'll never love a woman the way she wants to be loved. You should be yourself and be openly gay. That might mean going somewhere else, like the nearest big city, maybe, or any place in Europe. You don't have to do what your family says. You don't have to marry. You are a grown man who does not have to answer to anyone. Find a way to be yourself.
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reader, princessjasmine +, writes (5 August 2011):
your indian and so aam i so i understand its not as easy for indians than it is in the american culture. But don't do this to yourself, if ur parents pressure u, just tell them its not gonna happen and live your life. Maybe you can move away from your family so you can be yourself and meet other guys. Your happiness comes before anything else. Do not get married and ruin another girls life!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 August 2011):
 The only solution I can recommend is that you be yourself. If you marry someone for the sake of not appearing gay, then you're damaging the other person, and yourself. I know this is much, much easier said than done, but it is all I can say. Be yourself. You don't have to marry.
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (5 August 2011):
 Don't get married. It's not something you want to do, so don't do it. Don't listen to your family. They'll get over it. It's your life so live it the way you want and marry someone you're physically attracted to and in love with. You'll be happy you did in the long run.
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (5 August 2011):
 There are a LOT of gay guys who get married... and have children, with a woman, however in the long run they usually end up divorcing their wife and 'coming out'.
I would caution you against getting married just for the sake of pleasing your parents. You'll only end up internalizing stress related to 'keeping' your true feelings hidden.
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