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On and off ex that I just can't figure out.

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Question - (10 April 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 April 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My well I dont know what to call her, lets say ex girlfriend of four years, and I have been on and off for almost three years. Well Last year we broke up the most serious of break ups, she started dating, and a lot of the truth about cheating came out, I was devastated. I ended up in the hospital because of this, and even then she played with my emotions. Now we`ve been together for a few months without any on and off behaviour, so I thought things were changing. We broke up again and she started dating, and then we started talking about us, and she broke up with him, but then didnt know who she wanted to be with. Last night he made her choose and she chose him and then broke up with him and told me she picked me, so today when I picked her up, I was holding her hand but she then told me we werent together and I said okay, now she said she wants a break away from me and she will talk to me when shes ready. I dont know what to do, I dont want this on and off but I cant seem to walk away from her, does anyone know why she might be doing this?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010):

It doesn't really matter why she is doing this. It's most likely that she is a selfish, insecure foul woman (or shall I say child). She needs to fix her own problems not you.

What does matter is the fact that you keep allowing her back into your life. Stop. Break up with her and never speak to her again, she will probably try to convince you that she wants to be with you, but you already know how that goes. So, break up with her, ignore her, and move on with your life. Try meeting or dating new people, you will see she really isn't worth wasting your time.

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